How do I start a men's ministry in my church?

Begin with prayer, find 2-3 committed men, and establish a culture of expectation. Start with a simple breakfast or small group meeting, tackle real issues like pornography and addiction, and build vulnerability through consistent fellowship.

What curriculum should we use for men's ministry?

We recommend Build Better Men (12-week discipleship curriculum), Fit for Purpose, Grow Better Men, and the Launching a Men's Ministry guide. These resources are available through UPCI Men's Ministry.

How do we create accountability in men's groups?

Small groups build vulnerability - there's 'no place to hide.' Meet weekly, tackle real issues head-on, and create a culture where men can be honest about struggles with pornography, addiction, and passivity.

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MEN'S MINISTRY

A step-by-step guide to building a thriving men's ministry
that transforms lives and strengthens your church

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Prayer First

Before you plan anything, before you recruit anyone, before you schedule a single meeting — pray.

"Unless the Lord builds the house, the builders labor in vain." — Psalm 127:1

The Roadmap

Seven proven steps to launch and sustain a powerful men's ministry

Find 2-3 Committed Men

You don't need a crowd. You need a core. Look for men who are hungry for God, willing to lead, and ready to invest in others. Start small, build deep.

Build a Culture of Expectation

"If you expect greatness from your men, they won't let you down." — Brother Soto

Don't accommodate mediocrity. Set the bar high. Men rise to the level of what's expected. Call them to prayer, holiness, and leadership.

Start with Breakfast or Small Groups

Keep it simple. Meet weekly or monthly for breakfast, coffee, or a small group. Consistency matters more than complexity. Show up, open the Word, and pray together.

Tackle Real Issues

Don't avoid the hard conversations. Address what men are actually struggling with:

• Pornography and sexual purity
• Addiction and destructive habits
• Passivity in spiritual leadership
• Marriage and family struggles

Build Vulnerability in Small Groups

Small groups create "no place to hide." When men meet consistently in groups of 4-6, authenticity happens. Vulnerability breeds accountability. Accountability brings transformation.

Prioritize Spirit, Not Just Activity

Golf tournaments and camping trips are great, but they're not enough. Every gathering should include prayer, worship, and an altar call. Men need the Holy Ghost, not just camaraderie.

Use Proven Curriculum

Don't reinvent the wheel. Leverage the resources already developed by national UPCI Men's Ministry:

• Build Better Men — 12-Week Discipleship Curriculum
• Fit for Purpose — Evaluating a Men's Ministry
• Launching a Men's Ministry — Startup Guide

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The Biggest Need

According to our district-wide survey, the number one need among Wisconsin churches is:

"Resources and help getting a men's ministry established."

You're not alone. We're here to support you with curriculum, training, coaching, and connection to the national network.

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National Support

You're not building this alone. Wisconsin Men's Ministry is fully aligned with UPCI Men's Ministry, giving you access to:

✓ Proven curriculum and training materials
✓ National conferences and regional events
✓ Revitalization grants ($5K-$10K per project)
✓ Church in a Day construction missions
✓ Connection to 100+ other Wisconsin churches

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Ready to Get Started?

Download the free "Launching a Men's Ministry" guide and connect with our district director for personalized coaching.

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